“An apology is the
super glue of life. It can repair just about anything.” -- Lynn Johnston
If forgiving others is a great act, asking forgiveness with
someone is equally a great act.
We have been learning how to forgive & let go but now
it’s also important how to ask for forgiveness if we have said some harsh &
bitter things to others.
These things happen in our daily life: in the office, at
home, between lovers, between friends.
Avoiding such things in the first place is much better than
regretting later.
Asking for forgiveness is not an embarrassing act. We also
don’t lose our status by asking for forgiveness.
Bending to ask for forgiveness won’t make us a fool but will
make us great.
The first step is accepting that you were not right by
scolding someone who did not deserve it. You may have scolded that person in
anger or work pressure.
Approach the person, tell the person that you have done
something wrong by scolding or saying bitter words. Show the person that you
felt bad. Say "sorry".
In life, harsh and bitter words said to someone are like the
arrows that have been released and cannot be stopped. Such words hurt people
& make them cry. But it is never too late to apologize. Saying sorry with a
smile and with a regret is simply a great act.
Just realize that you cannot make yourself happy by making
others cry.
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